In this weeks entry, we’re looking at the emotional world of children—not through the lens of control, but through the lens of connection.
So often, we think our job is to manage our kids’ emotions: to fix the crying, calm the tantrums, or talk them out of being upset. But what if our real role is to model emotional regulation, not micromanage their experience?
This is about what it means to be real, not perfect. It’s about being witnessed as a feeling person in front of your children and letting them learn from how you move through frustration, repair, or vulnerability.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “supposed to” be the calm one at all times, this episode invites you to take a breath and remember: they don’t need you to be flawless. They just need you to be human.
What We Talk About:
Why trying to “fix” feelings can backfire
The power of emotional modeling in real-time
Apologizing as a form of parenting
How our own emotional discomfort shapes the way we show up
Why our messiness matters more than we think
Favorite Line from the Episode:
“You don’t need me to be perfect. You need me to be real.”
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